Have you ever seen that television show Til Debt Do Us Part? I’ve watched a few episodes when I’ve been flicking through channels at my parents’ house. A financial expert helps a married couple deal with their money problems. From what I’ve seen, the financial expert always advises that the couple find some way to gain additional income to help themselves out.
I wrote yesterday about a couple ways to make extra money when you need it. There’s getting an extra job or panhandling. And of course getting a sugar daddy. But there are less extremes ways to earn some extra cash. You can sell old stuff, for example sports equipment to Play It Again Sports, or have a garage sale. If you’re crafty, you can make trinkets to sell at craft sales. You can also return bottles to The Beer Store to get the bottle deposit back.
A bunch of us are going to my friend’s house for dinner on Saturday night. We are all bringing something to add to the meal and I said I’d bring a salad. On $4 a day, it is hard to find enough money to feed myself and have enough leftover to pay for the large salad to bring. But I also know that, from my research, a lot of the depression that comes from poverty comes from social exclusion. The worst thing you can do is sit at home and avoid your friends and family. As Suzanne said in her comment the other day, when you don’t have money, you both appreciate and need to spend time with your support system to get through it. You can find joy in just a simple walk in the park with them, or playing cards, or just talking.
I know my friends would understand if I say I can’t bring anything, but I want to contribute. I wouldn’t want to show up empty handed and therefore might not have gone. I needed to make some extra money to afford the salad so I could go.
My brother and I had a huge stack of bottles (wine, beer and liquor) that had accumulated over the past six months or so. I lugged all of the bottles down two big flights of stairs in the rain (six trips), drove them to The Beer Store, then carried them inside, sorted them and got the money for the return. It took about an hour from start to finish. But I ended up with $21.60! Plenty of extra money to pay for the salad.
How good deeds go wrong…
A little flashback to Good Deed month. I talked a lot last month about how people don’t accept good deeds, or in the extreme, react angrily or violently towards them. I started my day today with proof of this.
I live in a large house with six apartments in it. Last night I got home from work at 2am and the recycling hadn’t been taken to the curb. I know it is one of the people in the house’s job is to take the garbage out every week. It was late though and they hadn’t been taken out, so I thought I’d be nice and put them to the curb. This morning there was a three page note, written in thick black marker, covering the main door to our house. The note said basically in capital letters “WHOEVER TOOK THE BINS OUT DO NOT. DO NOT TAKE THE GARBAGE OUT. THIS IS MY JOB. DO NOT TOUCH THE GARBAGE. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THIS, CALL ME etc etc” for three pages!
I was absolutely shocked. I was trying to do something nice on a cold winter’s day and instead I get a nasty THREE PAGE letter telling me not to help. I’m a little confused as to why she cares that much. She doesn’t know it’s me, and I was going to call her and try to make her feel bad by being super sweet, but it’s not worth my time. I guess I won’t be taking out the recycling anymore. That’s what I get for doing a good deed – a bad way to start my day.