The best friend date
Some of you might think that this is a cop out, to put my best friend as my first date. But I don’t think so. My best relationships have been with people I was already friends with. Yes, you do run the risk of ruining the friendship. But you also have the potential for it to be the best relationship you ever had. You already know you love them. You know you get along. You know all about them and you feel comfortable with who they are. There are no secrets. You don’t have to spend your first date asking boring questions like “where did you grow up?” and “what do you like to do?”, because you already know the answers. You can talk about interesting topics, have fun, enjoy each others company. But I guess the big question is: is a really great friendship worth the risk?
It was a lovely evening out with the best friend that went into the wee hours of the morning. He chose the place. He even insisted on paying, even though we usually split everything. He treated me like a lady (although did tease me constantly). My headache this morning attests to the amount of wine we drank. I had a lot of fun. (I know, I bet you wanted more juicy details than that. There will be juicy details on other dates, don’t you worry!)
Having an odd schedule makes dating especially hard. No one wants to go on a date on a Monday night. Nine-to-fivers don’t think it’s a good night for a date. Shift-workers want to relax after a long weekend or are working. I did have a date planned that bailed on me, then another potential date that couldn’t do it, so I sent the task to a friend of mine with lots of contacts and five minutes later, a date for tonight! And a pretty interesting one at that. He’s going to blog about me blogging about him. And pick me from a party with all my workmates there. And joked about showing up with a parrot on his shoulder and speaking with a Mexican accent. Should be fun!
The Flash Mob
For those of you who followed me through art month, below is my video of a few short clips of the dance. I can’t seem to find the official video yet (will post that as soon as I can find it), but they did say we could post on Monday, so here’s my take on the experience:
International Dance Day Flash Mob
Metro Hall Square, Toronto
April 29th, 2011
Organized by the national Ballet School
Choreographed by Matjash Mrozewski
Filming by Nico Szidiropulosz
Editing by Lindsay Schwietz
Official video posted:
I haven’t talked enough about dance, considering I am actually dancing quite regularly. I am rehearsing, along with a large group of other people (I’ve heard about 130 dancers), to be part of a flash mob for International Dance Day on April 29th. Organized by the National Ballet School, every day of the week there are rehearsals (I usually only go to one a week) to prepare a dance routine for the occasion. I’m pretty excited to be part of this, as I’m a huge fan of all the flash mobs videos circulating on the internet (I’ve included a couple of my favourites below). I will talk more about International Dance Day and what exactly is happening at the secret location in two weeks. However, just being there dancing once a week, exercising, using all of my body and emotions, is a fantastic feeling. I find dancing just makes me happy, no matter what the style.
I’m really interested at the moment in spontaneous art. My friend Regan told me about an artist and author named Keri Smith (click here to check out her website where you can draw something “right in front of you” and submit it to the gallery). She’s written several bestselling books about creativity, but the one that interests me the most (which I’m now really interested to read), is The Guerilla Art Kit. Here is an excerpt from a blog post she wrote about Guerilla Art:
“HOW TO BE A GUERILLA ARTIST
(originally published in 2006)
Guerilla art is a fun and insidious way of sharing your vision with the world. It is a method of art making which entails leaving anonymous art pieces in public places. It can be done for a variety of reasons, to make a statement, to share your ideas, to send out good karma, or just for fun. My current fascination with it stems from a belief in the importance of making art without attachment to the outcome. To do something that has nothing to do with making money, or listening to the ego.”
Flash mobs fit into this category a little. Particularly the one I’m a part of celebrating International Dance Day – the goal to celebrate dance (although I’m pretty sure National Ballet School gets some free advertising out of this, which isn’t quite anonymous). I’m intrigued by the idea of random art for people to enjoy without knowing beforehand that they were about to witness something artistic. I’m going to start doing that. Although if I write about it on the blog, does that disqualify it from being guerilla art? I don’t think so, considering most people in Toronto who would witness the art don’t read my blog (as much as I wish they did!).
Here are a few flash mobs videos:
T-mobile advertisement, but I love it:
Sound of Music in Belgium:
Click here to watch
Last year’s National Ballet School flash mob at the Eaton Centre in Toronto:
Click here to watch
I also love everything Improv Everywhere do. Check out their website here for lots of fun time-killing videos!