Six hundred and fifty-three

Happy New Year!

Instant Infant

I can’t believe it’s 2013 already.  Is that a cliche thing to say?  I hope everyone had a fantastic holidays either celebrating Christmas, or just enjoying the break.  I spent a lot of my holidays talking about how much my mother wants me to have babies and whether I would consider having one on my own through insemination.  Yes, she really is that desperate to have grand babies.  I laughed at her and told her that she’ll just have to deal with whatever it is I choose, and NO, I am not getting artificially inseminated so I can raise a child by myself just for her!  I’m pretty sure my boyfriend would have a problem with this as well.  My aunt got me the “Instant Infant” you see above, so I kept joking that I’m now off the hook and mom should bug my brother and his girlfriend instead.  She was not impressed.

Christmas at the Schwietz household is a busy time of year, with all my aunts, uncles and cousins.  One year I think we had over thirty people for dinner.  This year dad organized a scavenger hunt around their big yard, which included a couple of “shot” stops, a beer, wine and cheese barn party, and scratching a lottery ticket in which I won $20 from!  We have so much fun, but it is a lot of work and energy that left me with a bit of an excitement hangover (literally and emotionally – probably letting my brother mix me a nightcap shot was not the best idea I’ve ever had…).  After the highs of the holidays, it’s easy to feel a little low, but grateful for my family and everything we have.

I don’t really do new year’s resolutions, because I figure we should be doing things we find challenging and living our life in the best way we can all the time, but I do plan to continue to do yoga and eat healthy.  My recuperating from my ups and downs was definitely helped by a little downward dog and cooking a yummy turkey soup.  And then of course my writing and a bit of painting I did with the new paints and easel I got for Christmas from my wonderful man.

I’m not really sure of my point for today’s post, if only to wish everyone a wonderful year.  I am grateful for every day I have and every thing in my life – the challenges and the triumphs.  Now I just have to get this book published so I can really celebrate 2013!

I’ve been on a bit of a photography kick recently, so here are a few I took over the holidays.  I hope you like them.

Bird house

Baby's First Christmas

Yes, this was mine from when I was a baby!

Camel on tree

Christmas Eve Cosmo

Christmas Eve Cosmo

Fireplace Angel family

Two hundred and seventy-five

I made it through 30 Holiday Celebrations!

Going from being vegan, to eating a little fish and chicken, to being really sick, to recovering, my body has gone through quite the roller-coaster this month.  Consequently, so has my energy level, my mind and my emotions.  But I made it through in good health and feeling great.  Even during that rough period of not being able to leave my bed, I was still interested in all these different holiday celebrations – even if I couldn’t celebrate them myself.  That was the beauty of this month.  I could honour the holidays around the world by researching, understanding and writing about them.

Recap of the month

I covered many holidays, from international celebrations, to silly ‘marketing’ days, to local parties.  Here are some of my favourites: World Vegan Day; All Souls Day (Catholic); American National Sandwich Day; Guy Fawkes/Bonfire Night (England)Eid al-Adha (Muslim); Journalist’s Day (China);  Iqbal Day (Pakistan); Remembrance Day; Chicken Soup for the Soul Day; World Kindness Day; World Diabetes Day; UN International Day of ToleranceStruggle for Freedom and Democracy Day (Czech Republic); Mickey Mouse’s Birthday; International Men’s Day; Mexican Revolution Day; World Hello Day; Start Your Own Country Day; Japanese Labor Thanksgiving Day; American Thanksgiving; Black Friday and Buy Nothing Day; International Aura Awareness Day; Movember; Square Dance Day.

What did I learn?

“I am learning all the time.  The tombstone will be my diploma.”
~Eartha Kitt

There were heaps of interesting things I learned this month.  I feel like a fountain of (sometimes useless) knowledge!  How else would I have known about how to start my own country and the Prince of Sealand putting his principality on the market? That Movember started in Australia?  Or all the complicated rules that go along with Square Dancing? I might not have spoken to the man from Egypt at the Occupy Toronto camp on Bonfire Night.  And I probably would never have celebrated Mickey Mouse’s birthday, or learned about all the different religious and national holidays that other people celebrate both around the world and in different religions here in Canada.

Unlike some of the other months, which had a lot of personal growth or change, this month was more about knowledge and research for me.  I did enjoy celebrating the holidays, but I was more interested in learning about all their details and about what it would be like to celebrate them in the context they are generally celebrated in.

Where do I go from here with Holiday Celebrations?

Hmmm… This is a tricky one.  I’m not sure I’ll really be celebrating every one of these holidays every year.  That would make November pretty busy!  Although I did really appreciate my time visiting my grandfather’s grave for All Souls’ Day, and learning about the weird and wonderful holidays celebrated throughout the world.  But I honestly will not be celebrating Hug A Bear Day or Banana Pudding Lovers Month.

I will go forward from this month with more of a respect and appreciation for other cultures’ celebrations.  Next time I see a random holiday on my calendar, I will spend a few minutes looking up what it is and how it is honoured.

Tomorrow I start Good Deed a Day month.  I’m looking forward to spending time helping people for the month.

Two hundred and seventy-four

Square Dance Day

November 29th is Square Dance Day.  It is a day to celebrate the folk dance where the ladies wear twirly skirts, the moves are called out through a singer, and the more I find out about it, the more complicated it seems.  I didn’t realize there were so many different rules and moves!

Square dancing was first described in 17th century England, although it was also popular in France and Europe.  It became associated with the United States, through the combination of traditional folk and social dances of the variety of people who migrated to the country.  Nineteen states have declared it their official state dance. (more information on the history of square dancing in the U.S. at

Square dancing is a dance involving eight dancers/four couples who form a square with one couple on each side.  Each of the couples has a number, with Couple 1 having their back to the music, then numbers moving around the square counter-clockwise. The head couples are Couples 1 and 3.  The side couples are Couples 2 and 4.  The “boy” always stands to the left of the “girl” (it doesn’t matter what sex the dancers are, as long as they remember which is the “boy” and which is the “girl” for the dance).  The couples are considered “partners”, while the person beside them (ie. to the left of the man and the right of the woman) is their “corner”.

The couples move around depending on what the “caller” tells them to do.  The “caller” is the person who sings out what formations the couples will take (like Simon Says, sort of).  It is always called in English, so anyone from around the world can participate, no matter what country they are in.

When moving around the dance, at some points you will end up with a different partner and corner.  Your “partner” is always the person standing beside you (even if it isn’t your original partner) and your “corner” is the person on your other side, as described above.  However, your designation as head, side, or couples 1, 2, 3 or 4 will stay the same throughout the dance.

Some other rules: when standing beside each other either facing the same way (a “couple”), or opposite ways (a “mini-wave”), you must hold inside hands; if there is a line of multiple couples or mini-waves, they should all join hands.  When passing another dancer, they must pass right shoulders.

This is already making my head explode a bit.  But, wait, there’s much, much more to square dancing…

There are many different moves that you must learn in order to understand what the “caller” is telling you to do.  Here are a few and some short descriptions courtesy of Square Dancing 101 (many more on the website):

  • Allemande Left: “Dancers face their corners if they have not already done so. Corners form left-hand-to-left-hand handholds and turn around each other 360 degrees, dropping the handhold at the end as the dancers rejoin their respective partners.”
  • Do Sa Do: “Starting formation  Any number of pairs of facing dancers. Dancers advance and pass right shoulders. Without turning, each dancer moves to the right passing in back of the other dancer. Then moving backwards, each passes left shoulders returning to starting position. No touching is involved, and no positions change. “
  • Courtesy Turn: “The man and lady stand facing the same direction with the man to the left and the lady to the right. The man takes the lady’s left hand (palm down) in his left (palm up) and places his right hand in the small of the lady’s back. The lady’s right hand is on her skirt. Working as a unit, the couple turns around with the man backing up and lady walking forward.”
  • Four Ladies Chain: “Starting formation – square of 8 dancers. All four ladies step to the center and join their right palms together to form a star shape if seen from above. The ladies walk forward (to the left, in a clockwise direction) and turn the star halfway around to their opposite men. All meet up with their new partners, take courtesy turn handhold, courtesy turn to face the center of the set.”

There are two broad types of square dancing: traditional and modern western square dancing.  Different locations have slightly different styles of the dance.

More details at Square Dancing 101 and Wikipedia.  For information on where to square dance in Canada, visit

On a side note, did you know there is a National Square Dance Campers Association, with over 100 chapters in the United States and Canada?  In order to be a member, you must complete a prescribed course in Modern Western Square Dancing style and be a camper.

And one more fun video to end off today’s talk of square dancing.  Happy Square Dance Day!

Two hundred and seventy-three

There are quite a few monthly celebrations/holidays/awareness days that happen during the month of November.  I don’t have time to discuss them all, but here is a list of a few of them:

  • Adopt a Senior Pet Month
  • American Diabetes Month
  • Aviation History Month
  • Banana Pudding Lovers Month
  • Diabetic Eye Disease Month
  • Epilepsy Awareness Month
  • Family Stories Month
  • Gluten-free Diet Awareness Month
  • Greens and Plantains Month
  • Historic Bridge Awareness Month
  • I Am So Thankful Month
  • International Drum (Percussion) Month
  • International Orphan Disease Month
  • Lung Cancer Awareness Month
  • Military Family Appreciation Month
  • National Adoption Month
  • National AIDS Awareness Month
  • National Alzheimer’s Disease Month
  • National American Indian Heritage Month
  • National Family Caregivers Month
  • National Georgia Pecan Month
  • National Healthy Skin Month
  • National Hospice Month
  • National Impotency Month
  • National Inspirational Role Models Month
  • National Lifewriting Month
  • National Marrow Awareness Month
  • National Novel Writing Month
  • National Pomegranate Month
  • Peanut Butter Lovers’ Month
  • Spinach and Squash Month
  • more at and

Man, they have a holiday for everything!  Do we really need a whole month to celebrate Banana Pudding Lovers?  Seriously?!  Although I am on board with the Peanut Butter Lovers’ Month.  Mmmm, peanut butter…

It is also Cyber Monday today – a marketing “holiday” where online shopping in America has huge discounts, like Black Friday is to in-store shopping – and “Make Your Own Head Day“, where you’re supposed to be crafty and create your own head (yes, a very odd holiday – must have been made up by a grade school teacher running out of ideas for day plans).

Two hundred and seventy-two

Happy Movember!
(not a specific day, but every day for the whole month)

It’s that month again that some of my girl friends hate (quote: “oh god… movember. Time to keep my eyes on the ground while walking around the city”) and others wear t-shirts with “Mo lovin'” across the front.  The month where men start clean-shaven and slowly grow hair on their upper lip to raise funds and awareness of the often ignored issues of men’s health, specifically prostate cancer.

The ‘staches are in full glory now in the last week of November.  The stubble has slowly become less of a five o’clock shadow and more of a moustache.  The trimming, grooming, and waxing has taken place. It could be any of the many types of moustaches:

a handlebar (bushy and must be worn long enough to curl the ends upward, which is usually achieved with styling wax); a pencil (thin, narrow, closely clipped mustache that outlines the upper lip); a chevron (thick and wide mustache, usually worn long to cover the top border of the upper lip); a horseshoe (full moustache with vertical extensions grown on the corners of the lips and down the sides of the mouth to the jawline, resembling an upside-down horseshoe); a walrus (large, bushy, droopy mustache that hangs down over the lips, often entirely covering the mouth); or a unique creation (descriptions and images from

Movember began in Melbourne, Australia in 2003 and since then has grown into a global movement, inspiring nearly 1.1 million Mo Bros and Mo Sistas to participate.  In 2010, almost 119,000 Canadian Mo Bros and Sistas raised $22.3 million CAD. More information at

There are tons of events around the world to celebrate Movember.  Take a look at the Movember Canada website for events near you.  You can also donate money to prostate cancer research by giving through a specific friend, a team or a general donation.

Here are some photos of my co-workers’ “mo”s:





Happy Movember!  Gentlemen, enjoy your ‘staches for the last few days.  And ladies enjoy the view… or count the days until it’s over!